Women's common lies in their relationships, which sometimes backfires

Updated on August 24, 2022 12:06 PM by Dhinesh

The lie is a part of our life:

You cannot avoid being dishonest your whole life; we have to be dishonest at least once in our life, which is keeping the fact that life without lies is like food without sugar and salt.

There is no way you can avoid dishonesty. It is always there amongst us and is always lurking amongst us.

The whole concept of straightforward human civilizations floating around is fake and made-up stories in the books. Nobody can go without lying even once in their lifetime; that’s impossible.

If someone says to you that they haven’t lied, you could pack your bags and move on in your life. This individual is either a pathological liar or maybe on the verge of losing his or her mind.

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Dishonesty is human nature:

If there were any truthful person in this world, people would have found the nearest one and put them on a pedestal, thinking of them as some avatar.

As it happens, though, dishonesty is simply part of human nature. As I said, you can't run from it, so you might as well embrace it and try your best to stay one step ahead.

In the world of relationships, men and women both lie. Moreover, in other forms of interpersonal relationships, people lie too.

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Dating lies are very common:

Dating games get the maximum prominence in terms of male or female lying. Dating lies always pops up with the same frequency and rhythm as in Brad Pitt films.

Sometimes these types of dating lie completely unnoticed. In many cases, it isn't easy to detect them. Therefore, men will always have to be ready to have their lie detector test on the high power.

Now don’t shout at this article; you have to look at the practicality of a situation. Lying is normal as people smoking or drinking; you find it obstinate, but you cannot get rid of it.

The whole concept of lying, especially when it concerns matters of trivial importance, shouldn’t be considered.

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Women do lie in various situations:

The way of lying is important, but with that said, you cannot find a girl who wouldn’t lie to you on any occasion.

However, things might go downhill when these trivial lies start piling up to form a big mount hill. It's important to hold your horses before you start charging your girlfriend over the lies she is telling you.

Now you can wonder about certain aspects whether or not you have got yourself with someone who has always got their pants on fire.

That isn’t a high-fashion pun. You might be thinking about your girl’s denim choices, while you might love keeping your girl’s rear portion in mind. But that is not what is happening.

However, some lies are common yet funny, and girls use them to save themselves from certain situations at the hands of boys.

Here are the common lies which women tell their better halves. Now, if any of these lies sound familiar, you might have unknowingly busted your girlfriend, and it is time for you to talk with them.

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Don’t worry; I am doing fine:

When a girl says she is doing fine, she does the opposite.

If today is the day your girl is saying she is not doing fine, then believe her that she is doing fine.

A girl usually says - I am fine - to herself more than to you or anyone out there. Even a pun of - I am fine - was also used by Monica Geller in the sitcom Friends.

It is also a way of calling for attention; if you say she is doing fine, go up and hug her tight.

Sometimes, girls find it difficult to explain their issues and think that stressing out will increase their issues more and more, so they say they are fine.

So, guys, beware! When your girl says she is fine, embrace her, kiss her forehead, and caress her until she calms down for whichever trouble she is facing.

They lie because they find it too difficult to come out and tell you something that might bother them.

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Exceptions are there:

Sometimes girls honestly mean that they are fine and okay and authenticate their words, but that’s rare.

Due to the change of times and generations, some women say they are fine, but it backfires.

The hilarious part is that their partners leave whatever work they are doing and pounce on their girlfriends, thinking that they are not doing well.

Now that is rare, and even though their girlfriends love the extra attention, the whole situation turns out to be romantic and funny.

But then again, the exception is not the rule, so you shouldn’t be considering that.

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Well, I never do this.

Now the question, what are the odds that she has never done this?

Now that is a question you might ask yourself first rather than charging at your woman or even trying to believe her.

When a girl says that, it usually means that they do it quite often. Now, they don’t have to share it with you because they don’t want to ruin their impression in front of you.

So, they decide to lie by saying they never do that. Sometimes, the girls do not want to put forward the fact that they are careless enough to make these types of errors in the first place.

For instance, your girl partner says she does not use her contraceptive pills during her active sex period. Now, you must be thinking; you do not have free access, but chances are there she is lying.

Girls want to put forward the fact that they do not go into so much sex that they have to go with a regular intake of contraceptive pills. Now, you can consider it a seventy-percent lie.

You can also say that they want to put forward to you that this whole sexual experience is almost new for them; so, you must be thinking that it must be a Wow moment for them, as usually everybody has for their first time for everything.

So, carefully don’t give in to their lies, and wear a condom during sex because you don’t want unprotected sex and bring in more trouble and diseases.

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Here comes the exception:

Now, here is also an exception; sometimes, some girls truly don’t take contraceptive pills either due to lack of experience or due to some gynecological problems.

Now, in those cases, if the girl says that she never does this, chances are the partner will not believe her. But then it is another ridiculous situation that sometimes happens only when the girl becomes authentic.

But, then again, one should go with the crowd, so you better go with the protection because you don’t know how much of your girl’s words are true.

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I will be ready in five minutes.

The most famous tagline of this millennium is women saying they will get ready in five minutes. Technically they will get ready in 35 to 45 minutes.

Yeah, that’s the truth; even on the first date you met her, she might have taken two hours to get ready.

So, don’t freak out, and if your girl is saying she will get ready in five minutes, you remain prepared to keep yourself engaged with something fruitful or start dressing at least twenty minutes after your partners have started grooming.

Ladies take time; it has always been happening unless it is urgent, and they have to run for their lives; they usually take time to represent themselves in the best way possible.

However, the psychological reason behind using these five-minute lies is to buy themselves some more time while they are getting ready for the party.

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Exceptions in this case:

Side Note: exceptions are there; it has always been there. Some oddballs have always broken the stereotypes.

Sometimes some girls do not bother putting on that much makeup, wear a sack, and get ready to walk out with you.

Don’t consider her desperate in love with you to be that fast in getting ready, or don’t think she is trying harder to please you by walking on your timeline.

She might not be interested in making things late and does not take much interest in grooming.

But then again, you should always have a backup plan and be ready for the regular ones since girls usually take more than half an hour to get ready.

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I am not drunk.

Well, that’s one of the ugliest lies they will say every time they drink and call you up. In most cases, they are very much drunk and do not prefer to accept that.

At other times, your girlfriend might get drunk and call you up to say something they might not be able to say in a sober condition, so they prefer alcohol in those times.

Moreover, they usually use the line to prove that they are very much in control of themselves, are not tipsy, and know about their liquor consumption.

Usually, that is the case with the girls; if so, ask her in which bar she is over the phone and, if possible, go and fetch her.

For half of them, your girl might be drunk and would try to take a cab or something, but, in any case, you shouldn’t risk it.

Even if she is drunk, she will be able to tell you which bar she is at, and you will be able to reach there on time for assistance.

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Exceptions can be funny:

But, then, just a tip, an exception is always there; in some cases, your girl might have been to the bar for the first time, taken a sip of Gin Tonic, and went tipsy enough to drunk-dial you.

So, even if they call and say they are not drunk, they might sound drunk, and you might find it difficult to believe her.

Some females have very poor alcohol resistance. Nevertheless, you might end up in the bar, surprising her and even annoying her.

These rare cases happen and turn out to be awkward as you might reach there to carry them home in your arms when they have already booked an Uber.

In any case, you need to be organized because oddballs are rare, and women do drink and get drunk a lot. Sometimes they drink to get laid; in any case, you be prepared for this preposterous lie.

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I am not nauseated.

Now, your girl is going to puke, so start the countdown.

In most cases, she is about to blow, and a responsible boyfriend takes her to the nearest bush outside the bar and keeps her hair tied towards her back so she can go with it.

Girls usually try to keep the concept of their alcohol resistance level equal to that of men. Moreover, she might be above the legal basic alcohol content limit and have become nauseated.

So, in that case, be at the side of your girlfriend and take her home as she might not be in the state of walking or even standing.

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Exceptions can be odd sometimes:

Well, in this case also, there are certain exceptions. Sometimes, your girl might have visited the bar for the first time or felt nauseated due to the effects of some medicines she might be taking.

Sometimes, mocktails in bars are mixed with club soda which might not work with medicines your girl is regularly taking.

Moreover, other fruit juices are added to which she might be allergic, and you don’t know, and maybe she doesn’t know about it.

In such exceptional cases, she might get nauseated and puke.

Now, if your girlfriend is one of those oddballs, she will be embarrassed to think you have taken her as a drunk alcoholic.

Now, the authenticity of these types of rare situations is very difficult to prove.

So, you better be prepared for the worst and always be ready to make sure your girl pukes in the restroom’s basin or outside the bar near some bushes, but not on the floor or someone.

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I am usually not this mad.

Now, your girl is lying, and you know that, and everybody knows that.

Your girl is mad at you, and now you have done something which has triggered her to such an extent that she went this crazy.

Usually, girls know they have temper issues with you making minor mistakes, and they can’t take those mistakes as it isn't always possible for them to make it alright.

So, to control themselves and to salvage the remains of their integrity, and perhaps to save their relationship, they might go on to lie.

In such cases, you have to be prepared for the worst; you don’t want your girl to freak out over things she might not have known previously.

For instance, you came late to the date, and your girl is mad at you; this is the fifth time you have been late to your date, and you can expect her to be mad at you.

So, remain calm and try to give a good explanation with a bouquet of roses and, if possible, a sweet gift and a kiss as compensation.

It will be difficult to make your girl understand when she is lying about being mad, so you have to make up for it as your girl might not want to lose her temper, but she does not want to lose you.

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The other side of the coin:

Now, then again, there are various exceptions. Even though it is very rare, exceptions are there; your girl might be on her period or might be PMSing, so she can get angry with you for getting late or behaving oddly.

Then again, your girl doesn’t bother waiting twenty minutes extra since she might have been habituated to being waited upon before by some other guys and girls. So, she might be prepared that you will get late for the date.

On the other hand, you have an experience of your ex-partners getting mad at you, so you are well-prepared for this date.

Though these are exceptional cases, these situations can happen where your girl might not be mad at you and might get flabbergasted seeing you gifting her sweet gifts, bouquets, and a kiss.

But then again, exceptions do not always happen, and one should not be taking chances, so you better get going with the lie and be prepared beforehand.

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Oh, he’s just a friend.

Now that’s a trick you might not fall into; just a friend is vague, as vague as trying to find life on Mars, knowing that the Red planet cannot sustain life.

In some cases, your girl will use the - He’s a friend - to evade you from the truth that she is harboring feelings for this so-called friend.

Probably in some cases, they have slept with this friend at some point or another, but they might have gotten bored of your girl and dumped her.

Now your girl cannot get enough of him, so she is still hanging onto him, and given a chance, she would love to have an emotional relationship with this male friend of hers as well as you.

Well, if you know she is lying, you better not try to get into an argument, as you will turn out to be the manipulator.

If you find that your girl can’t get enough of this one guy even after being with you so long, then you better walk off.

Girls use the word - he is just a friend - to keep their relationship going and keep this friend as a side dish. She is more like wanting to have both of you.

If somehow this friend stops talking to your girl, you might see her change color as she will lose all interest in you and humanity.

However, your girlfriend knows this friend will never date her, or maybe he is not that up to the mark or standard for her, but he satisfies her carnal desires and even strokes her ego.

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Some weird cases exist:

In this case, there is usually no exception unless the situation is another way around; for instance, the girl has rejected the boy, so even though he is in a new relationship, he keeps in contact with her.

This situation is rare and cannot be considered under the complete list of lies, but it is controversial. Moreover, the girl in this scenario is single, and the boy is in a relationship.

However, the guy still loves her, and she considers him nothing but a friend, but he is ready even to chew the bullet to keep her close. Now, it is the guy’s present girlfriend’s choice to drink the toxic relationship or not.

In maximum cases, if you are finding your girl too much texting and trying to grab much attention from this one guy and is even ready to marry you to keep this guy friend impressed and close, then it is a reg flag, as even in marriage, your girl will sleep with you thinking about texting him the next morning.

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I didn’t expect anything from you anyway.

It is the mother of all lies - your girlfriend, not expecting anything from you, is either suffering from mental health issues, sleeping with somebody else, or maybe losing interest in you.

In some other cases, your girl will not expect anything from you if they are emotionally getting fulfilled somewhere else. Social media is a bomb, so you never know!

Usually, a girl expects everything from their boyfriend but tries to put up the innocent factor because they don’t want to turn out in front of you as a gold digger.

They want to prove that they have never expected anything from you and that they are not a high-maintenance girl.

So, if you are on the verge of leaving them, they will try to put up a show by showing your face that they don’t care and are just hurt but won't beg for you to take her back.

They might even say that it might not have been love and that they would not take you back as you have left them hanging in there as if begging for a dollar - sounds familiar!!

But, the last thing you know, she has walked out of the door and is drunk-dialing you to pick her up. So, yeah, that is your girl who would say you are not good for them but then would prefer you to carry them to their apartment.

Usually, in this case, there are no exceptions unless you both are following a friends-with-benefits attitude because having expectations is the first and the last thing every girl will have with you, even if they are in a complicated situationship with you.

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I promise I won’t get angry.

Well, we know, and the whole world knows she is lying. She will get mad; it is just that she is giving you a prior warning before you open your mouth.

All you have to do is wait and see how mad she gets this time with you. They only use this white lie to make you comfortable before divulging something they don’t know.

It is a very clever way to entice you into what you wouldn’t have revealed in any other situation. You must be prepared to say only half-truths or at least sugar-coat it.

Unless and until you want to get rid of your girlfriend, don’t tell her the truth, as it would cost you heavily.

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Odd is not the rule:

Exceptions, in this case, are not that much unless your girl gets disappointed with your statements, as she might have come to know about it already from some other source but wanted to hear it from you.

In these cases, if they don’t charge you or don’t get mad at you, on literal terms, then chances are there that they have already planned to leave you, or maybe you both haven’t had sex yet.

So, in maximum cases, your girl will lie about not getting mad until they explode like a stick of dynamite.

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I’m not the type who gets jealous.

Now, every creature on earth has this specific emotion called envy and jealousy in them.

If you have a pet in your home and have been closer to some other pets outside your house, you will find your pet taking a narrow look at you; they could smell that other creature on you and become jealous.

In most cases, when a girl says to her boyfriend that she does not get jealous, something has just made them jealous.

They want to appear cool in front of you and show that they don’t care and are very open-minded partners.

They only use this line to provide you with their image of some feigned confidence.

Of course, your girl cannot show in front of you that they are jealous of the other girl with whom you were talking two minutes back.

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The oddest factors to be considered:

Now, there is an exception in this case; your girl might be bisexual or gay, and either she knows it or doesn’t know it; anyhow, in those cases, she would not be jealous of you checking out another girl.

These are exceptional cases where you both are walking, and you checked out this girl, yet your girlfriend did not react because she was picturing herself with her in bed.

So, yes, that can shock you that your girl is calm and cool with you checking out a girl in front of her. She might even appreciate the girl in front of you, and you might think she is trying to play cool.

If you have landed a bisexual girlfriend with you because you love her very much, you are kind to her, and she has no issues with your wild sexual demands, then you can expect your girl not to get jealous.

Now there is a risk as the guys, in these exceptional cases, think their girlfriend is a passive partner and demure with low self-esteem. But you better not try to judge them, as things might take a turn if they start making you feel jealous.

However, in maximum cases, be careful your girlfriend will find that girl disgusting whom you have been checking out two minutes back.

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I was busy the whole day.

Technically she wasn’t, as she is completely lying to you.

She was hanging around with her girls or maybe simply trying to avoid you for no particular reason but couldn't tell you, so she told you she was busy.

If your girlfriend is saying she is busy, do not go on charging her and showering her with questions about what she was doing and why she did not call you because she will get irritated.

So, when your girl is saying she is busy, just let it be, or else she will try to bring out more lies that might not be digestible for you.

Usually, girls prefer shopping and shopping and shopping and do not want to share it with their boyfriends to keep the fact hidden that they are spendthrift.

Sometimes, your girl claims they were working the whole day because your girl knows you will not have any other thing to say if they say they were working.

In any case, your girl wants to prove that she is not a high-maintenance girl and does not believe in retail therapy. It is a white lie, and be prepared to be requested for a dress or a piece of jewelry the next time you meet with her.

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Now the odds are always there:

As a side note, there are exceptions in this case; your girl might be seriously busy working rather than shopping, but since you have an experience in dating, you might think she is hiding that she went shopping with her girlfriends.

This situation can be a bit complicated because maybe your girl does not like shopping or maybe has friends but prefers working more than shopping.

In these exceptional cases, the men are well-prepared, thinking their girl loves spending money. The shocking part is that these men take their girls shopping by picking them up from work.

Now that can turn out to be extremely awkward for the girl as she might not have been habituated to being taken to expensive shopping centers and gifted dresses by her boyfriends or partners.

She might even take offense thinking that they satisfy your wild demands in bed, so you are giving them to the best of your capability. Now, these are exceptions, and they can be nasty.

Moreover, it is very difficult to accept that a girl can also be a workaholic and prefers spending her time in front of a digital screen than hanging out in front of a posh showroom.

But, do not go with the exceptions as you cannot expect to land in with the oddballs, so be prepared with a hefty bank account to spend the next day you meet up because she lied she was busy.

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I am okay with it; I know she’s your past.

That is a lie, but again, your girl is desperate to be in a relationship with you, so she is ready to chew the bullet herself if required.

She knows, and even your past knows, that she will never get over the fact that you had an ex-girlfriend.

She will invariably want to know more and more about your past girlfriends and your past encounters unless she is cheating herself in her relationship.

Moreover, you might be following your ex-girlfriend, who is still not over you, on Instagram, and your current girlfriend’s presence wasn’t able to do much of anything; since she saw you like your ex’s Instagram photo.

In any way, they want to prove that they do not give importance to this particular ex of yours as she finds her place much higher than your past.

She might find excuses to fight with you regarding your dating history, but you need to make her understand that you and your ex will not be present anytime now.

You will also have to accept that she will never get over your past, so you better get on with the fact that you cannot hide your social media history from her.

But, then again, she cannot leave you either because she doesn’t want to leave you anyhow, so it is fair enough.

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The ugly side of the face:

This situation has an exception; if your girl has previously cheated in your relationship, then she might be okay with you being friends with your past through social media.

The other exception is that she knows your relationship with her will not last long, so she doesn’t want to create an unnecessary fuss; if required, she would walk out of your life.

However, considering normal cases, you must be careful that your girlfriend will always have an issue with your past, but she will keep lying to your face.

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We are not doing it; I am on my period.

Well, not all girls want to explore things in bed. That’s with most girls; they know men get squeamish when they see their girl through that time of the month.

Even though they are lying, you won’t be able to catch it because you might not want to get on with the wild exploration of having sex during her period.

Your girl knows that you have an odd take on the whole menstruation cycle. So, you will keep yourself away from touching her if you come to know she is bleeding.

She also knows you will go off to sleep disappointed, and she can escape from a night of sex.

Girls usually say that when they are tired or not in the mood to have sex due to some psychological drama they might have faced at their workplace.

In some other cases, maybe her pill bottle has emptied, and she cannot risk you getting horny in the middle of the night, and she doesn’t want to get pregnant.

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The most surreal exceptions:

However, there is a sudden exception in this case; your girl might seriously be on her period, but you are horny enough to go wild in bed. Moreover, you might have known girls avoid sex by telling these lies, so you are diving into her anyway.

In such exceptional cases, the girl might think her boyfriend will behave oddly and squeamishly towards her as guys normally do.

But, things might backfire as she might see her boyfriend getting triggered, thinking he wouldn’t have to use a condom and natural lube is already present.

These cases have happened many times, so they cannot be completely ruled out. Maybe the guy wants to have sex anyway and thinks that the girl is lying and even if she is telling the truth, he can have unprotected sex.

Moreover, period sex is very common nowadays in relationships, and the guy wouldn’t have to work hard on foreplay to turn her on; as she is already ready, all he needs to do is dive in her.

Maybe the girl is not interested as she is serious about that time of the month, but then a horny boyfriend knows how to persuade her and is confident to give her satisfaction even during her time.

Nevertheless, the girl couldn’t deny it because period sex does help them from getting rid of cramps and headaches. So, it is a win-win case for the guy, as he has no qualms about being explicit with his girl any time of the month.

But these are exceptional cases where the guy has such intense feelings for his girlfriend that he is ready to accept her in any way possible.

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Let’s wrap it up

You should be aware of the lies girls tell in a relationship because you cannot take a dig at them. Women lie in relationships to save themselves from various situations; if you know them, you can find a way to deal with them without breaking your relationship.