A 90-day Challenge: Kim Hits A Wall As Usman Raises The Stakes - Including His Brother's Approval

Usman "Sojaboy" Umar and Kim Menzies disagreed over their adoption plans. Kim was upset when Usman mentioned his brother Mohamed and his wife were considering adopting his 4-year-old nephew, Mahadi, on Sunday's episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily, Ever After?

Then she told Usman how she felt, and he led her into her son's bedroom to discuss their problems. Usman admitted that Kim was upset that her brother wasn't aware of their adoption plans, and Jamal defended her against his father's accusations. Jamal said that the couple's adoption plans are also being moved too quickly. 

Usman replied, "I'm thinking about the future, how we can live together, how our lives will be. That's going to be sweet for both of us." But Jamal said, "I don't think that's the case at the moment." Ultimately, she chose to adopt your brother's son, and I feel she is making one more sacrifice for you because you gave her the decision to do so."

The involvement of Jamal is too much

• It sometimes seems like you don't understand what my mother does for me; Jamal continued to defend his mother.
• He said that Usman had shed new light on him, adding that he had dropped a bomb on his mom, which was very concerning.
• The very thought of Jamal getting too involved in his mom's business is too much for Usman. "Sometimes, I think Jamal gets too involved," Usman explained.
• According to Kim, Usman "should have communicated more clearly" their adoption plans with Mahadi, his wife, and their 4-year-old Mahadi before she visited them.

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The adoption of this policy has been justified.

• Since it isn't what we do, I need to know everything when considering becoming a parent.
• Usman justified the adoption by saying, "His child is my child, in an African way." Kim reiterated her concerns about springing the adoption on the family.
• It will be good for him to be adopted because he will have the opportunity to attend American schools. I love you so much, and we have a connection. He's my brother's son.
• The adoption is good for me, Kimberly, and our entire family because I'm very determined to have a child.

As of now, there is no adoption plan

• Their first act of bonding with Mahadi was to play with him and bring him a gift when they arrived.
• Kim, however, was still scared when she heard what Mahadi's parents thought of her adoption plan at this stage of her life.
• The suggestion shocked Mohammed and his wife, who inquired about his meaning.
• Mahadi was promised that Usman would provide him with the best education and whatever he needed.

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Kim issued a flat refusal

• Usman suggested that Kim become Muslim, but Kim flatly refused. She also told him it wasn't cool for them to be surprised by their adoption decision.
• In a confessional, she explained that Mohammed has reservations about raising Mahadi as a Muslim and that she does not want to become one.
• She confronted Jamal about why she wanted a child and discussed the possibility of adoption with him.
• Kim explained to Usman after their conversation, "Usman wants to have children and will be a great father, but we have to agree on things."